It's Just Like Poker!
Poker is like Karma and Candyland is Fatalism. We are all dealt various hands in life but we are able to play them in a variety of ways.
Then I tell my class that we are ridding all the tables of Candyland and in its place we will put a deck of cards. I instruct the person in the north chair to deal a hand of poker without shuffling. Again I have stacked the deck in favor of the north chair sitter. He or she will have the best hand. To keep it interesting it will not be a Royal Flush, which beats all hands all the time. But it will be better than the other 3 hands. So the question goes out, “Who wins now?” While some will immediately agree that the same lucky northerner will win there is usually someone a bit more astute who brings up the fact that we can’t be 100% sure on this. Do the dealers know they hold the best hand? What if someone with a lesser hand bluffs? What if the dealers are too timid to bet? With poker there are a lot of what ifs. Professional poker players will tell you that the cards dealt count for only 20% of the outcome. Other factors include psychology, memory, patience, and the ability to react serenely to both good and bad hands.
This is the point I try to make: Poker is like Karma and Candyland is Fatalism. We are all dealt various hands in life but we are able to play them in a variety of ways. We may “win” or “lose” but it is not written in the stars that the outcome must go in a certain direction. Even astrologers will tell you that the heavens give only indications of what may happen if certain forces are not overcome. That is why some choose not to know in advance the hint of any prognostication lest it wobble ones confidence.
I am very happy to report that after this little whimsical exercise most groups I address to end up getting it. As a matter of fact, one time I hosted a class from a rather conservative Christian college. After I finished that part of my lecture the professor had this rather dumbstruck look on her face. She said, “I’ve never had Karma explained to me that way before.” I found out later that she often used the subject to denigrate Hinduism in favor of her faith by showing how Hindus are mere slaves moving in time to an impersonal force’s fancy.
Not to worry. I’m sure she’s found other ways to accomplish her task.
It is important to realize that in the end there really isn’t “good Karma” or “bad Karma.” While we see it that way in the moment each reaction to a previous action is an opportunity to grow in deeper Self Realization.