Anne Lamott Wows Us Again With Stitches
Best-selling author Lamott talks about her new book Stitches and shares her words of wisdom with Oprah for an exclusive episode of Super Soul Sunday on OWN.
Many refer to her as “the people’s author” because she speaks volumes to everyone. Anne Lamott’s humor and down-to-earth tone makes others feel comfortable. Her words are honest. She inspires a spiritual transformation from within and will guide you through the hurdles in life that you are struggling with. Beliefnet talked with Lamott about her new book Stiches.
What was the inspiration behind your new book Stitches?
I started Stitches the day after the shootings at Newtown, although I've been thinking and talking about the search for meaning for awhile. This world is so scarily speeded up and technologically science fictional and armed, that it can be hard to know what is true and enduring and safe. I always used to tell writing students to write what they'd like to come upon, and I've been really wanting to come upon a book on meaning and healing and hope in this strange new world, where everyone has 3 kinds of internet devices, plus guns.
Why the name Stitches?
Every section I wrote in the first months of work on the book came back to the idea of stitches being the beginning of restoration. Stitches connect, hold torn things in place; stitches decorate and create beauty. Stitches bring unity to patterns or colors or textures that don't at first seem to "go" together. Stitches hold quilts, create warmth, and can unite us, against all odds, as we stitch together, and as we learn to receive what other have gifted us with.
Can you explain the meaning behind suffering? Do you believe that suffering is a necessary element in order for us to fully appreciate life?
Suffering, despair, great loss, are all part of the natural order of things in a human life. But the culture has convinced most people to suppress their tears and disorientation, which strips people of authenticity, the opportunity to feel their feelings, their chance to experience divine love in friends' compassionate outpouring of tenderness and care.
So much energy goes into trying to pretend that we are doing okay, that we have gotten over certain losses, so our lives are false fronts. We get to decide as seekers if we choose to take down the false, beautified construction, and discovery our truth, and what is wild and real--and these quests are why we are here.
In your opinion, why is order and discipline essential elements in life?
Discipline has always been the path to freedom for me as an artist. I can't just wait around for inspiration. I never really feel like writing, but in 35 years I have established the habit of being strict and firm with myself. I get my work done, rain or shine.