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Are You An Over-Apologizer?
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Brandi-Ann Uyemura
I am. And I’m betting most women are. In fact, a study found that women apologize more than men do. Why? Men have a higher tolerance for what they perceive is worthy of an apology. Women who want to instill harmony in their relationships are more sensitive to transgressions, and more apt to feel like…
The F-Word That Will Change Your Life
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Brandi-Ann Uyemura
To be human means you ache. You hurt for the things you don’t have, the life you never got, the people who betrayed you. Some days seem full of grief, heartbreak and anger. And it’s so easy to stay in this place. Although you’re never promised a perfect life, you gripe in agony over the…
Practicing Acceptance
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Brandi-Ann Uyemura
I think one of the greatest obstacles we grapple with is learning how to accept what is instead of moaning and groaning about what we don’t have. It’s like we’re sitting there one hand full of riches and the other hand open full of potential. But we don’t see it. Nope. We’re too focused on…
The Truth About Comfort
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Brandi-Ann Uyemura
Fear if left alone will only grow bigger. And if confronted can reap so many unexpectedly beautiful things. Such a small choice like deciding to go out with a new friend or trying a new restaurant, a new way home, can be like a car wash for your soul. Sometimes it’s small ripples that cause…
Why Life is Unfair
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Brandi-Ann Uyemura
Life is not supposed to be easy. We’re not meant to sit in hammocks and twiddle our thumbs. We’re grown to be both hard and soft, both strong and vulnerable. We’re built to withstand hardship and to be supple and weak. We know this as children. We know it inherently, which is why children laugh…
What’s Causing You the Most Suffering
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Brandi-Ann Uyemura
What’s causing you the most suffering in life isn’t the things you don’t have or not being grateful for the things you do. The reason why most of us endure so much unnecessary pain is that we believe in the picture painted by another artist’s brush. To put it simply, understanding why you’re in grief…
Sweet Ways to Savor the Weekend
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Brandi-Ann Uyemura
Remember when weekends were all about doing nothing? When you could lay back and lounge around with a intoxicating book and an ice cold drink? Weren’t those days the best? What happened to our weekends? Why have they been suddenly filled with plans, errands and to-do lists? Maybe we lost something when we embraced our…
Don’t Let Fear Overrun Your Faith
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Brandi-Ann Uyemura
That’s the thought that overpowered me over a decade ago when I had a once-in-a-lifetime chance to work part-time as a private investigator. And it’s visiting me again. It’s so easy for me to fall into the trap of fear. One doubt, a single second of second guessing and I become saturated with fear so…
10 Ways to Beat Anxiety
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Brandi-Ann Uyemura
Anxiety is not my favorite disorder. It’s probably one of my least favorite. Why? Unlike depression it can make normal activities like going to the grocery story or riding a plane feel like a real life nightmare. Thankfully, there are a multitude of ways to address the symptoms of anxiety. And this can help those…
Summer Un-Necessities: What You Don’t Need This Summer
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Brandi-Ann Uyemura
It’s just a few days until it’s officially summer. This usually signals a mad rush to truly savor the season. But unlike spring, fall or winter, there’s an added expectation that comes with these next few months. So instead of getting caught up in them this year, I thought it’d be nice to find ways…
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