(Before you go off and start that romantic conversation with your Gemini of choice, CLICK HERE read the introduction to this series)
So you’ve decided to take on the charms and wit of a Gemini. Good for you! They’re a lot of fun. Yes, sometimes you may wonder if they’re taking you seriously, or taking the right things seriously at the right time, but hey — no one’s perfect. Gemini isn’t really as flighty as they sometimes get accused of: you’re just having a hard time keeping up with what they’re finding significant at any given minute. But if you think about it, sounds fun doesn’t it?
Here are some handy tips for making time with a Gemini.
WORK WITH THE HEAD: Intellectual stimulation. Let them know you’re smart. Don’t be afraid to steer the conversation towards your field(s) of expertise, whatever it may be. If they have an interest in it, you’ve got their attention. And if that Gemini isn’t familiar with that field, they’ll probably want to know more.
LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX: Okay, this doesn’t mean you have to lay it all out on the table (literally or figuratively), but at least talking *around* the subject can lead things to where you’re wanting them to go. If there’s anyone who can be convinced to get into bed for purely logical reasons, it might be Gemini.
LISTEN AND TAKE NOTES: The Twins have a reputation for talking about things a lot. That’s often true, and you’d be surprised if you pay close attention to what they’re saying and the possible subtext, they’ll let you know exactly where they’re going with their emotions, even if it isn’t the exact subject being discussed.
HAND THEM ENOUGH ROPE: Again, an intellectual approach… keep ’em talking. Show some interest. Understanding a Gemini and agree with them is as good as roses and chocolates. If you can keep up with their reasoning, then you’ve got it made.
Finally, something you should avoid with Gemini – boredom. Okay, it’s pretty much impossible to keep a Gemini entertained ALL the time… even another Gemini can’t do that. But shoot down a Gemini’s ideas, keep them restricted in a routine, ignore them while they’re talking, and generally show a lack of interest in whatever is fascinating them today, and you’ll lose this one.