“Nothing is more difficult, and therefore more precious, than to be able to decide.” -Napoleon Bonaparte.

I apologize if the tone of this article is a little…harsher than usual, but I promise it’s only because I love you, and want you to have the absolute most unbelievably mind-blowing life you can possibly have!

Over the course of working with hundreds, possibly thousands of people in my Life Coaching practice, I have noticed many people aren’t really living.
Their hearts are full of hopes and dreams, but they allow their own fear and indecision to stop them from taking any meaningful action towards creating what they want.
And so, they are only half-alive. Which makes them half dead…like zombies.

Never thought of it like that, have you?

In the video below, I give several points on how to take control of your life:
How to take control of your life, and why it’s important; why you need to choose what you want, and what will happen if you don’t; how to know if your relationship is over, and what to do if it is

Is there some area in your life, that you’re not getting the results you’d like?
Maybe your relationship isn’t what you’d like it to be, or your career, or your body, aren’t how you’d prefer.

The question is, why not????

We already talked about beliefs and how they can limit you, or set you free; but there is one thing that actually comes even before that.
Remember when we talked before about how your thoughts lead to your feelings, your feelings lead to actions, and your actions lead to your results?

But before any of that can happen, you have to CHOOSE your thoughts!

Decide what you want.

Let me say it again: DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT!

And the answer isn’t something like “I want to be happy” or “I want to feel loved”, because you can have that in an instant. Right now, this second, you can feel that.

But even more important then deciding what you want, is deciding what you DON’T want anymore!

In the video below I share how many people I know have been stuck in the same cycles for months, or even years; relationships they know don’t have a future that they won’t leave. Dead end jobs they won’t quit. Baggage from the past they don’t take steps to resolve.

So I am going to do something uncharacteristic and cut this article short, to give you time and an opportunity to watch this video. It came from the heart, and nothing I write will do it justice!

But I want to leave you with this:
What can be more important than fulfilling your God given mission, and following your bliss? If you can’t decide what makes you happy, then who can????

What do you think ? Feel free to comment down below!

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B. Dave Walters

Writer, Life Coach, and Talk Radio Host

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