I loved Holly Rossi’s post (at Fresh Living) on how best to break up with a friend. She brings up so many important issues: how to deal with the hurt, what’s the best technique, what to do when you just don’t get it. After I read her post, I have to admit, I questioned whether or not I “broke up” gracefully and feel badly for the friend left behind even if I was extremely hurt by her actions. Holly writes:

I am responding so strongly to Therese’s video because I have unresolved friend-break-up issues. Twice, I have been dumped by friends–one of whom was so close she was a bridesmaid at my wedding–so unceremoniously, without warning, and without closure that I’ve never quite gotten over it. I’ve always wondered if the end of our friendships hurt them too, and I would love to know what they would say about Therese’s insights.

I think you’ll benefit from reading about her two examples, because they are unique and yet universal to this problem. Check out her blog by clicking here.

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