Imagine a world in which everyone who would like to do so, could experience nurturing touch on a daily basis. How many hugs do you share each day? For most people, the number is stunningly low. According to family therapist Virginia Satir:
“For human beings, you need two hugs a day to survive, four hugs for maintenance, six hugs to grow.”
Even for this insatiable hugger, I can honestly say that even I don’t
share six hugs each day, but I am working on it:) Here is an
opportunity to dip your toes into the hugging waters, if it is a new
or uncomfortable experience for you. And if you are a veteran
hugger, feel free to dive right in! But, ask first before you hug
someone and get their verbal consent.
Today is National Hugging Day was founded in 1986 by
Rev. Kevin Zaborney from Caro, Michigan is a chance to ‘take up
arms’ in a peaceful way . I am tickled with delight when I think of
the joys of hugging that people have experienced since that first
day that it was a mere thought in the mind of the
creator of this event.
Hugging carries with it so many benefits on all levels, including
lowering blood pressure and heart rate and invoking a sense of
belonging, thus preventing isolation. There is also increase of the
hormone called oxytocin which is secreted when mothers nurse
and people cuddle. Folks who hug more, also notice an ability to
create and sustain intimate relationships. Quite simply, hugging is
portable, fat free, calories free and cholesterol treat. so if you’ve got
arms, welcome someone into them.
To learn more, go to www.nationalhuggingday.com
Music to hug by written by Fred Small
The Hug Song http://youtu.be/V6HR0mK9Y6E