Last night, I attended a holiday gathering for a group of talented artists, writers, publishers, radio hosts, producers, as well as PR and marketing folks. Needless to say, I was in my idea of heaven. The Center City Philadelphia Restaurant where it was held is called Bliss. What a perfect place for the Bliss Mistress to be ! My friend Nina Sidell, who is a highly intuitive coach and author invited me to join in the frolic. Not tending to be shy, I made the rounds of the room, extending my hand and introducing myself to many of the others who were chatting and enjoying the yummy stuff on the buffet table. Lively conversation ensued as business cards and ideas were exchanged. People were talking about their creative endeavors and I felt like I was in interviewer mode as I asked questions about their projects and passions, listening intently. A recurring theme was evident. Even though most were doing what they loved, there was still at least a wee bit of ‘starving artist’ mentality, as if it wasn’t fully possible to do what you love and be well compensated for it. That had been my mindset for far too long. These days, I am totally certain that if I do what I love, the money follows. I refer to myself as a thriving artist and encourage others to do the same.
More joy brings more joy, more success brings more success. I have also noticed that when I send out invitations to The Universe for certain outcomes, they often show up on my doorstep. One example is that I had wanted to interview an author whose book was made into a newly released film. Turns out that one of the men there knows her personally and will reach out to see if that is possible.
Part of being a thriving artist is tapping into dreams and visions, messages and resources that come my way. I am a far more open channel for them and tend not to brush them away when they flutter around me. Another is that I am becoming far more teachable. When before, I would have felt a sense of disapproval if someone did ‘get’ my message or wanted me to offer my words in a different way, now I am open to learning more polished ways of presenting them. More skills in my tool box.
What would it take for you to embrace your own artistry in a far more expansive way?
Creating Vision boards onto which you paste images and words that represent your deepest heart’s desires.
Journaling your sleeping and waking dreams.
Writing and speaking affirming messages that feed your vision and intention.
Surrounding yourself with yaysayers, rather than naysayers.
Catching and re-directing yourself when you use limiting words to describe yourself and your work.
Be open to The Muse however he/she shows up.
Most importantly…have fun with the process.