It’s that time of year again! My neighborhood is alive with decorations—skeletons, ghosts, spiders, and all things spooky. Full disclosure: I’m not a fan of the holiday or its decorations.

I understand that kids love the costumes and candy, but after exploring Halloween’s origins, I personally have never been enthusiastic about it. However, I often receive questions about how Halloween relates to the Christian faith, so I want to share my perspective. Ultimately, the decision is yours to make for your family.

In the past, I allowed my children to dress up and trick-or-treat in our neighborhood. Some years, we even attended Harvest parties at our church. We chose costumes carefully, avoiding anything associated with the occult or dark themes like vampires, as I don’t want to celebrate death or evil. With so much negativity in the world, it just doesn’t sit right with me. I also have concerns about the connection to Halloween’s occult roots, the scary costumes, and the potential desensitization of children to the darker aspects of the spiritual world. But this is my viewpoint; you should discuss it with your family.

Different families approach Halloween in various ways. Some embrace the fun of costumes and trick-or-treating, while others opt for alternative Harvest parties. Some argue against alternatives, believing they imply that children are missing out, while others have safety concerns. There are many opinions on this topic.

It’s essential to research the holiday, listen to what the Lord is guiding you to do, and make a family decision. Pray for wisdom and follow the Holy Spirit’s leading rather than others’ opinions. Help your children understand your stance and the reasons behind it.

Your choices deserve respect, especially if you’ve had personal encounters with the darker side of the spiritual world, whether in your family history or your own experiences. If your decision is simply based on your discomfort with what Halloween represents, remember you don’t need anyone else’s approval.

Romans 12:2 reminds us not to conform to the patterns of this world, but to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. In today’s post-Christian culture, modeling a stand for your beliefs grounded in Scripture is an important lesson for children.

That said, it’s crucial not to judge others. Many use this holiday as an opportunity to engage with neighbors and discuss spiritual matters. I remember when our son was young, he would share about Jesus while walking around the neighborhood. Some families feel they can dress up and hand out candy without fear, seeing it as a chance for meaningful conversations about the spiritual world with both children and adults.

Whatever you decide, remember this: Jesus has overcome all evil, so we need not fear. He has triumphed over darkness (1 John 4:4) and death. His overcoming power works within us when we belong to Him.

Reassure your children that no matter what they encounter, they are covered by the precious blood of Christ—something comforting, not scary. Greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world.