One of the biggest problems in our relationships is that so many of us believe we can change another person. Truth is, we can’t. But we can change our reaction to that person and then the relationship changes.This lie, “I can change another person” is one of ten relationship myths I cover in my book, I Married You, Not Your Family.

So how can you effect change in a relationship? Watch this short video:

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