Doing Life Together

Thanksgiving is just around the corner, but for Tim, the stress has already begun. One family member is boycotting the dinner due to political differences, while others are squabbling over logistics and what to bring. Instead of a joyful occasion to give thanks, the holiday feels like a powder keg ready to explode. Old grievances…

Lying may seem like a quick fix to avoid conflict or protect someone’s feelings, but its long-term effects on relationships, personal integrity, and emotional well-being can be far-reaching. Whether it’s a small white lie or a more significant deception, the consequences of dishonesty often extend beyond the immediate situation, causing harm to both the liar…

Loneliness is one of the most profound challenges of our modern society. While it may seem like an individual problem, loneliness is increasingly being recognized as a widespread issue with deep societal roots. From the erosion of community bonds to the decline of shared cultural practices, many factors contribute to the rising sense of isolation…

You’ve probably heard someone say, “He’s so controlling,” or “She’s always pushing me to do things her way.” Maybe you’ve even found yourself thinking this about someone in your own life. If you feel like your relationship is off-balance and you’re constantly being controlled or manipulated, it’s important to understand what that looks like so…

I previously shared a blog about understanding trauma, and now I’d like to delve into healing from complex trauma. This journey is deeply personal and often demands time and patience. Each individual’s experience is unique, which means that different approaches will resonate with different people. While I have faith that God can heal anyone from…

Divorce is a common experience, and even when it unfolds without drama, it can have profound effects on children that often go unrecognized. The fallout of divorce on children, particularly on adult children of divorce is important to acknowledge as there are consequences that may play a role in our current relationships There are common…

When we talk about trauma, many people instinctively want to push it to the back of their minds and move on. But some types of trauma linger, casting a long shadow over our lives. Complex trauma is one such experience, and its effects are not easily forgotten. Understanding its impact on our nervous system is…

During my college years, Thanksgiving break often turned into a political battleground, thanks to my loud and opinionated family. We all know the unspoken rule: steer clear of politics during holiday gatherings. But that year, two of my uncles had me in tears while discussing the results of a presidential election. The conversation became contentious,…

It’s that time of year again! My neighborhood is alive with decorations—skeletons, ghosts, spiders, and all things spooky. Full disclosure: I’m not a fan of the holiday or its decorations. I understand that kids love the costumes and candy, but after exploring Halloween’s origins, I personally have never been enthusiastic about it. However, I often…

I have a simple, free practice that can significantly enhance your physical health. This isn’t a gimmick or a fleeting trend; it’s a habit you can adopt regularly to help you thrive. You have complete control over this change, and it can truly transform your life. Are you ready? It’s gratitude. Research shows that cultivating…

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