One of my wife’s favorite passages on forgiveness and healing by Deepak Chopra in his book, The Deeper Wound:

“Forgiveness belongs to the heart.  You can understand its value, you can believe that it is moral, good, upright and righteous to forgive – but if you don’t feel it, forgiveness is forced.  Countless times you have needed forgiveness and countless times you have offered it to someone else.  The mantle of who is right and who is wronged gets passed around in a circle.  When you cannot find in yourself the purity of forgiveness, ask to feel more than you feel.  Spirit won’t give you new and better reasons to forgive someone.  It will show you another way.”

blessings,
🙂 Lee
The MEGA Coach