You are the source of your life.
You are the source of your beliefs, values, actions and results.
You are totally responsible for your life and choices.

Often, life presents itself differently than we would like…..things happen.
This could be in your personal relationships, health, home, financial situation, career, etc.
Life is full of changes and unexpected outcomes.  

Life, people and opportunities come in many shapes and sizes.
Yet always, life actually is supporting you for your highest growth or success.
Your present attitude, perceptions, emotions or situation do not always reflect this truth.

It requires a strong, honest and courageous person to not take things personally.
It requires clarity, center and balance to observe the reality of truth in the moment.
It requires a higher perspective to not be caught up in the drama.

You can take responsibility for your life and for your choices and circumstances.
Or you can complain, criticize or blame others because things are not the way you want.
When you point your finger at someone, there are three fingers pointing back at you.

If a situation is challenging, or seems negative, complaining, blaming or hurting others only makes it worse.  It does not change the source of the problem or create a solution.

The best thing to do when in conflict is to stop, detach and let go.
The first one to peace always wins.

If there is a problem with someone in your life, the best thing you can do is to have a sincere, compassionate conversation with them and share your feelings and truth with the intention to clear up any misconceptions.  It is wise to meet face to face or at least on the phone.  Do not use emails for relationship issues.

At the core of every person is their natural, pure, good essence.
Trust this reality, speak to this reality and always see their higher self.

Give peace a chance.
Be the first to create peace and others may just follow.

smiles,
🙂 Lee
The Mega Coach

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