I remember the day my friend turned to me and said, “Colleen, no one person tried any harder than you to save your marriage. You can find peace that you left no stone unturned.” No one wants their children to experience divorce. It is ugly, it is disillusioning and it is life changing. I hope…

I once heard someone say that it takes two people to make a marriage fail. Well, yes and no. In the average relationship that might be true. However,if one is married to a narcissist, an alcoholic, an addict, a gambler, a compulsive liar, and a few other severe afflictions then it is far more complicated.…

My heart was so broken and empty after twenty some years of marriage that I didn’t think I would ever believe in trusting someone with it again. I am not saying that I am anywhere near that now, just that I am beginning to feel open to the possibility. One of the best lessons that…

I sit with friends in the coffee shop. We share a few really great laughs. I realize two things have magically returned to my life. A fairly, constant smile once again accompanies my face. A natural ‘joie de vivre’ is creeping back into my life. And… A sense of peace. I no longer feel hurt…

I am working on some of my writing. The fire is roaring because it’s way too cold in the northeast tonight and Hazel has her big old, labrador body snoring next to me on the couch. I sift through some e-mails and notes for future articles and deadlines that I have for various articles. I…

I’m constantly falling deeper in love with my wife. – Jeff Bridges I can sum up our marriage in a line I spoke when I played the great pitcher, Grover Cleveland Alexander, a line spoken by him in life to his wife, Aimee: “God must think a lot of me to have given me you.”…

I change into a black smock and find my way to the chair. My hairstylist grabs a section of my hair and some foil. We laugh as she begins the process. TODAY, I am getting a blue streak laced within my dark brown hair. It’s my year. My re-entry. My take back. My comeback. My…

Dear…… We knew we were in trouble. Only… I fought You didn’t I said there was nothing we couldn’t overcome You didn’t I told you that you were the love of my life You didn’t I told you I couldn’t live without you You didn’t I told you I would do anything to save us…

People Facebook me. People text me. People e-mail me. People call me. We have one thing in common. They want to know why it is that they can’t get over the person they love and are losing. They are reaching out to the right person. I am an expert in not getting over love. I…

“I don’t know why work isn’t going the way it used to,” says my friend “Rosalita.” I think I know why. “God is trying to tell you that you deserve something better,” I say. You can work just as hard for someone who values you and pays you what you deserve. “Rosalita” needs to hear…

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