Letting Go with Guy Finley

Question: Can guilt be used to tell me that I did something that needs to be changed? Answer: Guilt is a wasted, useless, and ultimately self-destructive state. We need only see ourselves as we are in the moment when misstepping. This awareness not only changes what misstepped within us, but it also dismisses any wrong…

It is important to understand what it means to be in the wrong place. The right place isn’t just where your body is sitting. Have you ever been in the right place physically, paid a lot of money to go there, and then sat there resenting the fact that there was pulp in your orange…

Once upon a time, there was an eco-tour guide in Africa who was considered the safest guide in all of Africa because virtually no one got hurt on his tours. You would think that people would flock to this eco-tour guide because of his safety record, but he had a certain reputation. It wasn’t just…

If you ever really want to know whether or not you’re in a “right place” for yourself — or for any others around you — just go still; be as inwardly silent as you can for a moment or two, and the truth will be made clear to you.

If we try to make a new beginning, motivated by an attempt to no longer be where (or what) we once were, we do start out, but not from what is new. On the contrary, we begin our search, and then reach our conclusions as to what we must come to possess to affect this…

The only thing that can happen to you when you’re in the wrong place is a wrong thing. But even when you find yourself in a “wrong place” inwardly, you don’t have to remain there. The way to turn any painful interior location into an act of self-liberation is by daring to exchange that false…

Question: I feel completely drained of my own energy at the end of the day. Is there a way to deliver God’s limitless energy and love to people so that I can stay energized in the interaction instead of drained? Answer: You’re delivering the wrong message… and you’re not the delivery person. Trying to be…

Trying to support an illusion steals your energy and those with whom you interact. Real life does not drain you as you learn to “be” with others…

Things are the way they are, because we are the way we are; the life we’ve made acts upon us, but how we act in return — in each and every moment — serves, in the same way, to change what is being made each and every moment. The seed is the deed.

Any lingering sense of sadness that permeates one’s life cannot be separated from the “smallness” of that person’s life. Work to connect yourself to the “allness” of life — instead of identifying with the smallness of it — and you’ll awaken to a greatness already living within you that is no more be bothered by…

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