Obviously we are not talking about liking you as a friend cos’ that would be bad. We are talking getting a girl to like you in a “I want to have sex with you right now” sort of way.
How do you get a girl to like you?
Before we get into this in greater detail I need to clarify one thing. This article is not about how to make a girl like you without doing any work. Or how to get any girl you want in the world. There is no way to make any girl like you and it does take some work upfront. Others might try to sell you the dream but that’s not the case.
However there are ways to improve your chances of getting a woman to like you. The vast majority of women that is :-).
A lot of the things in this article you may have read before on this blog. That’s because there is only so much you can teach. I don’t want to pluck ideas out of my ass just to create new content. Hopefully with the repetition, it will sink in quicker.
Step 1 – Get some style
I know I have talked about this before :-). However I will always be adamant that this is a key aspect to getting women to like you. Get your style sorted and you will definitely increase your chances of getting a girl to like you.
Let’s get one thing straight, it’s definitely not a necessity, however the fact you can control it 100% says to me that you should put that little bit of effort up front and get it sorted. This is one of the best ways to get a girl to like you before you even talk to her. Anything you can do to help your chances should be done.
To women, it shows that you care about yourself and that you take pride in your appearance. Two qualities that women look for in guys.
Step 2 – Make sure you are well groomed
Going out looking like a scruff bag is going to make your life a lot harder than it should be. Although women are not hung up on the way a guy looks, they are hung up about they way he grooms himself.
Let’s be honest if you can’t take the time to keep your beard tidy or make sure your face looks nice and clean then how are you ever going to find the time to look after her?
It doesn’t take a lot of time to make sure that you groom yourself properly. We are probably talking 10 – 15 minutes before you go out. For the vast improvements that you will see, quarter of an hour really is worth it. So make sure you do it.
Step 3 – Get into shape
What’s next on our list of how to get a girl to like you? Get yourself into shape. Women do like guys who are in good shape just like men like girls who are in good shape. You have the style, you have the grooming, now it’s time to get the physique to go with them both.
The main thing however is not just the way you look physically. Although having the right body proportions is very attractive to women, it’s also about what being in shape demonstrates. It demonstrates you take pride in your appearance and care about your health enough to go through the rigmarole of getting into shape.
It’s not always easy to get down the gym but it’s worth it because you will feel better about yourself and women will find you more attractive. Remember as well that endorphins are released during long, continuous workouts, when the level of intensity is between moderate and high, and breathing is difficult.
Also remember that getting eating the right foods can help fight the unwanted flab. The saying goes “Abs are made in the kitchen, not in the gym”.
Step 4 – Make sure you find some cool hobbies
Women love guys who do cool stuff in their spare time. It shows that they are passionate about something and willing to put in the time and effort to improve at it.
First and foremost, remember that you should only take up an activity because you want to. Never do it because you think it will get you laid. For example I took up magic before I even found out about learning to meet women. I love performing magic and that shines through when I do perform for others.
So make sure you don’t do something just to impress girls. However if you want to learn a new skill but not sure what to do then here are some ideas:
* A musical instrument such as guitar
* Learning a new language (something I would like to do when I get a bit more time)
* Maybe you have always wanted to be able to dance well
* Learning to cook like a pro. What woman wouldn’t like a guy who can cook well
Once you know what you what to learn, dedicate time to perfecting the skill. It will only be a matter of time before you become a master if you spend enough time practicing.
Step 5 – Be social and friendly (Don’t be an asshole)
You need to make sure you are social-able and friendly in general. If you make sure that you are friendly and sociable then you will most likely end up talking to women without realising.
Women are drawn to those who are the life of the party so to speak. Part of this is being sociable and making sure that you talk to other people.
If you just stand in the corner and do nothing then you are going to struggle to make women see you are this cool, fun, awesome guy to hand around with.
Now I understand that you maybe trying to go for the bad boy style approach. However this does not mean you need to be an ass hole. Being the bad boy just means that you are confident, a little cocky, live on the edge, ride a motorbike, etc. It does not mean that you are ass hole who treats women badly and makes them feel bad.
Step 6 – Approach them and talk
By now hopefully you are starting to feel good about yourself and are gaining some confidence in the fact that you know you look your best, you are becoming fitter and you are learning a new life skill that will not only benefit your abilities to meet women, but also your whole life in general.
So now it’s time to approach some women.
Although there are many types of men that attract women. One type women really do like are confident guys. To get girls you have to be able to approach them and talk to them. One of the best ways to show confidence is to walk straight up to a girl and start talking to her as if it was no big deal. This gives you an instant air of confidence and will straight away make you look as though you have high value.
Plus, the only way you can truly get girls to like you is to talk to them. So being able to approach women is pretty important, so make sure you do it 🙂
Step 7 – Get them laughing
Women love to laugh just like the rest of us. I am not talking about being the comedian / clown for the evening and just trying to get all the women you meet to laugh.
Laughing has a huge effect on the way a person feels. There are a number of reasons why laughing is really good for you.
It is said that laughing releases serotonin among other things. The reason I mention serotonin though, is because it makes you feel good. If women feel good around you then all is sweeeet.
I am talking about being able to get a few laughs out of a woman when you are talking to her. Women love a guy with a sense of humour, so if you can make her aware of this when talking to her, you are much more likely to cause attraction in the girl.
Step 8 – Take things to a sexual level
Showing sexual advances early on when you meet a girl can put her off. However at some point you need to show her that you are in to her. Knowing how and when to do this can be difficult.
Firstly you need to be aware of how she feels about you. If you try to take things to a sexual level before she is ready then you might ruin your chances. If you need to know the signs to look for then check out 10 signs a girl is attracted to you.
Now you need to know what to do. This all depends on the situation. If you are in a club dancing with a girl then you are probably best pulling her in and giving her a kiss. If you are out at a park sat in the sun, then you might take her hand and place it on your leg.
Final thought
My final thought on how do you get a girl to like you is simple… make the above points part of your daily routine and success will follow.
Like I said earlier, if you have any of the others articles before you will probably have read all of the points above somewhere or another.
However I firmly believe that these are some of the key fundamentals that you should be aiming to achieve all the time in your quest to learn how to get a girl to like you.
Although habits are difficult to form, if you commit to them and make them a daily thing, you really can start becoming much better with women. Seriously, once you can form these into habits, you will always be in the best situation to meet and attract women.
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