Every one of us possess the desire to be unique, and to become more than we are today.

In God’s kingdom, we sacrifice those selfish desires for God’s glory. Entering the kingdom and accepting the calling that God has placed in our hearts is transformative.  Like Mother Teresa, you may find yourself caring for the sick and dying.  Your calling fulfills a deep and holy desire that transcends your flesh.

We attempt to control that calling by reading self-help books, wrestling through ten steps to success, or reciting mantras that promise to help us transcend the mundane of the everyday to embrace an extraordinary new reality.

But Jesus has another plan.

If there was a “God-Help” section in the bookstore, it would be filled with books with titles like:

10 Ways to Die to Yourself
Embracing Daily Sacrifice
Dying to Live: The only way up is down.

To live a life that makes a difference–a life well lived–we have to literally sacrifice our self-centered conceptions of what makes us important, loved, and relevant.

Making a difference that echoes in eternity may look foolish to everyone else in your life.

It may mean leaving a job that pays good money, selling a status symbol, adopting a child or any number of things that will make the world scratch its head and demand you have yours checked.

As Francis Chan shared an excellent sermon on contentment, we have to live a life that “demands explanation.”  [To get Francis’ sermon, go to Cornerstone Church, click “GET A SERMON” and scroll to the message on 05/31/09 called “What do you need in order to be happy?“]

Soon I am going to launch a series called “10 Questions” where I will interview people who live lives that demand an explanation.

Do you live a life where people say, “I don’t understand that? Can you explain it to me?” Do you know someone who does?

More from Beliefnet and our partners