Pretend you’re a princess or prince right now.  C’mon, just play with me for a few minutes.  You won’t regret it.   Life’s too short not to have fun.  I’m putting on my sparkly fairy wings, my jeweled crown, my superchick cape adorned with sequins, lined in leopard print, as I hold my gold =filled diamond fairy wings, rockin’ my blinged-out-red-soled-Louboutins. . .okay I got carried away there.  I’m silly, ya gotta deal with that.  I always loved the fairy princess stuff and thinking of life in a magical way.  If I had a magic fairy wand, I’d wave fairy dust and make everyone instantly love themselves. I wish that for everyone. It just changes your whole life and all of your relationships are better. I wish I could do the work for you, but I can’t.

Your journey is yours and mine is mine. I had a knowing in my own heart to share some pieces with others since I know the pain and feeling of disconnection from not loving yourself. So I can offer some gems, but your soul’s wisdom is truer than any words ever written in any book when it echoes in your being.

The keys to love yourself are there within. What echoes in your soul?

What echoes in your soul, past the mind and the thinking, which quiet when you’re being. You hear it when you hug, when you love, when you chose a higher path, when you feel most your soul.

You must take a mental vacation. This is the soul’s gig. This means your “to-do lists” do not have to be completed to warrant self-worth. You do not need to be supermom/dad or superwoman/man. You do not need to be perfect, don’t even set a standard for it.

Yes, my friend, this journey begins right now. It’s a daring, bold, brave, badass, fulfilling adventure that will change you. . .for the better. Are you willing? Are you going to take the leap of faith with yourself? The journey begins when you say “YES” right now. Say it aloud. With this, you are a brand-new you, there is no going back, you are going to embody these words you read. You will magically have the power to change. I believe in you. Although you always had the power, I’m giving you permission to change. You are now allowed to be awesome, own it and celebrate it.

Close your eyes. You are now sprinkled with magic fairy dust from my wand.

You are officially a rockstar of life, a true goddess/god, queen/king of your world. So listen up, rockstar muffin. . .from here on out, you are going to step into your greatness, brilliance, epic awesomeness and really act like it, unapologetically. It’s not a better than feeling, it’s the best YOU feeling. No one can crash your good feeling party without an invite and if they do sneak into the party, just kick ’em out.

Now put on your sparkly crown and let yourself shine!  Love yourself right now.  Believe in fairy tales and rescue yourself from your own tower.