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Myths That Keep Us Feeling Sorry For Narcissists
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Sherry Gaba
Narcissists are chameleons with the ability to appear to be just what you want and need, at least for the initial whirlwind part of the relationship. However, once they have established the relationship, the dynamics change rapidly, with the narcissist utilizing a variety of tactics and manipulations to keep you close. The relationship stops being…
Learning To Trust After A Toxic Relationship
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Sherry Gaba
A toxic relationship is an unhealthy relationship. These relationships typically include feelings of being unloved, unwanted, misunderstood, unsupported, belittled, or even attacked. While most people consider a toxic relationship emotional and psychological abuse, there can also be issues with physical abuse and domestic violence. It is possible to find yourself in a toxic relationship and…
Setting The Trap: Dating Strategies Used By Narcissists
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Sherry Gaba
There are many myths and misunderstandings around being in relationships with narcissists. One of the most common myths is that somehow people should be able to recognize a narcissist by simply checking off a few boxes on a handy dating checklist. In reality, the behavior of a narcissist during the initial stages of a dating…
Is Your Early Trauma Picking Your Partners?
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Sherry Gaba
Most people have had at least one bad relationship in their life. For most individuals, this bad relationship was a blip on the radar, with the experience chalked up to a lesson learned. However, there are also people who find themselves in the same toxic relationship over and over again. The partner may look different…
The Relationship Between Early Trauma And Love Addiction
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Sherry Gaba
Love addiction is not a psychological diagnosis, but that does not mean people cannot become addicted to being in a relationship. Most people know at least one person that is constantly getting into the same bad relationships with the same abusive, narcissistic, or otherwise emotionally unavailable type of partner. Why some people develop love addiction…
The Potential Problem In Choosing Partners – 7 Signs you are living in a relationship fantasy
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Sherry Gaba
As a general rule, when we meet someone new that we find attractive, we tend to see their best possible traits first. These are often the traits we find comfortable and familiar, and that allows us to associate the individual with other positive people in our lives. However, there are also times when we meet…
Successful Strategies To Stop Defending And Explaining Yourself To A Narcissist
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Sherry Gaba
There are many challenges in any relationship. However, being in a relationship with a narcissist can be extremely toxic and destructive. In some types of relationships, simply leaving and disengaging from the narcissist is the best solution. Some relationships are very difficult to leave. Relationships with the parent of your child or children or narcissist…
Why Narcissists Attract People Pleasers: Two Sides of the Same Coin
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Sherry Gaba
In many ways, narcissists and people pleasers have similar issues in a relationship. However, they are expressed in very different ways. The narcissist can only see the relationship for what it gives them, with the focus entirely on their own needs. The people pleaser is equally skewed in her vision of a relationship, but is…
Recognizing The Anxious Attachment Style
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Sherry Gaba
8 Signs Your Attachment Style effects your Adult Relationships Therapists, counselors, and mental health professionals recognize four different types of attachment styles. These styles or profiles are based on Attachment Theory, which was first introduced in the 1960s by John Bowlby, a British psychoanalyst and psychologist with a focus on childhood development. The attachment, or…
Everyone Has Narcissistic Moments: Understanding Our Behavior
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Sherry Gaba
It is very common for people to latch onto specific labels and diagnosis and attempt to determine what is “wrong” with someone in their life. Narcissism is one such label and diagnosis that is used by people to describe people who may show signs of being selfish, uncaring, or lacking in empathy, compassion, and understanding…
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