Man of Steel
As they consider adoption, "everyone has a fantasy of what it is to be a mom or dad, then reality sets in," says Dr. Nancy Cohen, Director of Research at the Hincks-Dellcrest Centre for Children's Mental Health in Toronto. “Yes, there are lovely moments, but there are stresses too.” Sure, but adoption has such rewards, notes Snyder. She and Zack recently adopted two infants – adding to their six kids, which include two girls from China.