Spiritual Renewal in Elul

Waiting for Rosh Hashanah

By Elicia Brown.

The tail end of summer often finds me engaged in uncharacteristically pious behavior. I've stopped, smiled and dug into my pockets when panhandlers glanced my way. I've stumbled out of bed in the wee hours, even before my young children arose, hoping to hustle to morning services at synagogue. And I've shared quiet dinners without a giggle at anyone's expense, without a single sarcastic remark, without criticizing anyone in any way.

This is my Elul etiquette. The Jewish month of Elul, overlapping with August's end and September's start, kicks off a five-week period for reflection and renewal, for rethinking one's relationship with people and with God. It is an intense stretch of spiritual rejuvenation. Consider these 11 steps to help replenish your soul during this season of contemplation, which ushers in the Day of Judgment, otherwise known as Rosh Hashana, the Jewish New Year.

Giving

My Grandpa Willie lived modestly during his early years in the United States. But I remember how he spoke with admiration of his own grandfather, who doled out pennies to any beggar who asked. My Grandpa Willie watched his elder in amazement. "But zayde, we're so poor ourselves. We can't afford to give away money," Grandpa Willie complained. "It's not for you to say," my great, great grandfather admonished. "If someone asks; we give."

Judaism sets very generous standards for charity. The tradition demands giving at least 10 percent of post-tax income to the poor. One nice custom, which relates to the upcoming fast on Yom Kippur, is to focus on hunger-related charities during Elul by writing a check that would cover the cost of a day's worth of meals. During this period, you might also contribute in a non-monetary fashion by donating blood, volunteering at a soup-kitchen or visiting a nursing home.