How Can I Serve You? By Allen Vaysberg l Change Your Life l Tips for Helping People l Change the World

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That one simple question "How can I serve you?" can literally change your life. The word “literally” is overused but it applies directly here. It all started with Neale Donald Walsch last year at Celebrate Your Life conference sharing his belief that "your life is not about you...but who you touch and in how you touch them..." That is a very interesting perspective and contemplating it brought many things to mind. In our lives we most often think from the perspective of "I". What's in it for me?, as crude as it sounds, seems to be at the core of what we do and how we treat others. Of course we are taught differently and would like to think of ourselves differently. But on some level, we will agree that Mother Teresa we are not. That being said, there appears to be a genuine and easy way that makes putting other’s needs ahead of one’s own attainable. A simple application of the question "How can I serve you?" before you do anything can help you get out of the Ego and into your Heart. That in turn has a tremendous number of benefits.

Law of Attraction

Law of Attraction. One of the main blocks to attracting is selfish focus. I want a new car, I want this lottery ticket to be the one, I want this job, etc. If your focus instead shifts to helping others you will be able to attract much quicker since it serves many not just you. That is what the Universe and your soul wants thus quickening the process of manifestation. In truth there are so many other ways that your life could be improved by just reminding yourself of the one simple question “How can I serve you?” periodically. It is a small change that results in a seismic shift in your consciousness and your life. Thus a suggestion would be that anytime you find yourself irritated, frustrated, not loved, etc. just ask, "How may I serve you?” and see what happens.