Emotionally Destroyed
Losing everything all at once is a huge lifestyle adjustment. Everything being taken from you at once, kids, marriage, home, and your day-to-day life, can be shocking. Your emotions are in a whirlwind.
Take it day-by-day and do not set your expectations for recovery to high too fast. Surround yourself with good people and take part in activities that build you back up. Remember that healing takes time.