The Biggest Mistakes Families Make During an Intervention

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Interventions are forums for loved ones to make a case against an addiction that is taking over an individual’s life. Family and friends join together with hopes that their plea will be heard and the necessary steps to ending an addiction will occur. However, no matter how careful participants may be things do not always unfold as planned. Mistakes happen and in the end many families are left to pick up the pieces or admit defeat because the addiction is bigger than previously anticipated. While there is no error proof method, there are many avenues you can avoid to ensure a more prosperous outcome.

Don’t Preach

Most addicts are engulfed within an extreme amount of denial about their addiction. Therefore, when they discuss their problems they are inclined to throw up their walls and become increasingly agitated. Don’t allow their attitude and actions to send you into a rage. Discuss things patiently and be willing to listen to their side. Even if you believe their opinions to be those of an addict, it’s imperative that you give them the floor and pay them the same respect that you expect to receive in turn. During an intervention, family members make the common mistake of being overbearing and force their beliefs on the other person. It’s important to stay level headed and be willing to acknowledge efforts.