It might be officially over or maybe you both agreed to the "let’s take a break option." Maybe this came as a surprise and you are totally blindsided. Nonetheless, the relationship has fallen and has left you in a million pieces. Now, you are downloading Adele, taken off work and have not left the house in days. You might still have the hopes of a text or a drunk dial when actually get yourself together, but in reality, this is for the best. The pain of a broken heart can be long-lasting and can devastate your confidence and the ability to love again. Don’t let this become a terrible nightmare. The pit in your stomach will go away. You will leave the house with a smile and you will look forward to the next day. In fact, it can be a great time to learn more about you as an individual. Here are 5 things you can do when a relationship collapses.