Real Love Right Now By Angela Guzman l Relationship Advice

Men and Love

What is the most common question that you receive from men about love? What is your response to them?

The most common question I receive from men when it comes to love is, “Will I ever learn how to get love right?” My first answer to them is actually a question, and I ask “Do you want to?” Followed by a second question, “Do you believe in love?” When there answer is yes to both questions I tell them, then they are already well on their way! As I continue to realize after interviewing thousands of men over the years, I see just how similar men and women are when it comes to wanting true love and intimacy. However they must first trust that real love exists before either can experience it.

The Most Common Issue

What would you say is the number one issue that couples will face? How can they get through it?

The number one issue that couples will face is how the lack of understanding each other’s pathology and ability to give and receive love will form a disconnect that will in turn affect all aspects of the relationship until there is awareness, personal accountability and the willingness to heal, grow, and change. Therefore, the way to get through the disconnect and to come closer in love is to do just that; seek awareness, seek understanding with compassion, seek self-growth, ‘take turns’, and work on coming together. When all of this is in place, marriage can actually be a beautiful and amazing experience.