Rosemary
Perhaps rosemary’s unforgettable scent made it the symbol of remembrance and its byproduct, fidelity. At a funeral, a sprig would be placed in the deceased’s hand so they wouldn’t forget loved ones. Sprigs were entwined into a wreath and worn by brides to represent fidelity, love, and memory of childhood innocence. Anne of Cleves, Henry the Eighth’s 4th wife, wore a rosemary wreath at her wedding, and Shakespeare’s Ophelia says to Hamlet: “There’s rosemary, that’s for remembrance. Pray you, love, remember!” Legend says rosemary, which grows wild on the dry, rocky hillsides of the Mediterranean, originally had white flowers; they turned blue when the Virgin Mary, resting during her flight to Egypt, removed her blue cloak and laid it on the plant. A Spanish proverb says men indifferent to the scent of rosemary are likely to be insensitive to women and the pleasures of life. “…Who passeth by the rosemarie And careth not to take a spraye For woman’s love no care has he, Nor shall he though he live for aye… “